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L.A. Forum Highlights Korean American Adoptee Experiences

Above image: (From left) Julayne Lee, Steve Morrison, Jenna Ness. Photo courtesy of KAYLT.

by JAMES S. KIM

The subject of adoption has a long, diverse and sometimes controversial history in the Korean American community. Some estimates say that as many as one in 10 Korean Americans is adopted. In other words, adoption is a major part of Korean American history.

In an effort to help educate the community, especially the younger generations, about the unique experiences of Korean American adoptees, members of the Korean American Youth Leaders in Training (KAYLT) program hosted a forum in Los Angeles on Tuesday night. Among the speakers were Korean American adoptees Julayne Lee, Steve Morrison, Jenna Ness and Emile Mack, who shared their stories and also talked about some of the complex facets of adoption from Korea—an issue still debated today.

One common theme among the speakers was the issue of acceptance, or lack thereof.

Emile Mack, was adopted into an African American family with parents who “never treated [him] differently,” but as he grew older, the question of his identity began to loom larger.

“As I had my encounter with different identities, I would get the thing of, when I meet Asians, they would say, ‘You look like us, but you don’t act like us,’” Mack said. “When I bump into African Americans, they’d say, ‘You sure don’t look like us, but you kind of act like us. … He’s the Asian kid that has rhythm.’”

Despite a rough childhood, Mack said those experiences helped make him tougher, and growing up being accustomed to feeling different helped him face deal with some of the racial issues going into his career. When he first began as a firefighter, he profession was dominated by white men.

“The things that you guys are going to go through, although adverse, in the end, are going to help you help you grow stronger, more determined,” he told the students. “Never be a victim, and allow anything to stop you. When you become a victim, you’ve made yourself a victim.”

F-Emile-0211-EMS-0327Emile Mack with wife Jenna and their daughter, Mia in their Redondo Beach home.                                       Photo by Eric Sueyoshi/KoreAm.

His parents’ influence played a part in Mack adopting his daughter Mia.

Steve Morrison, founder of the Mission to Promote Adoption in Korea (MPAK), also adopted two of his five children. He said his decision to adopt was largely due to his experience with his adoptive parents. “No adoption is perfect, except mine,” he lightheartedly remarked.

Morrison still acknowledged, however, that not all adoptions have had positive outcomes.

The issue of international adoption from Korea is a controversial one, as an estimated 200,000 Korean children have been adopted, mostly into white families in North America, Europe and Australia, since the end of the Korean War. The number of intercountry adoptions remained high even after Korea emerged as an economically stable country, and many blamed this on the strong social stigma against single mothers. In recent decades, under pressure from adoptee activists, South Korea has enacted laws designed to encourage single mothers to keep their children and promote domestic adoption. As a result, the number of Korean adoptees has decreased significantly over the last 20 years.

Yet, Morrison and other speakers said, despite these legislative changes, single mothers still contend with stigma and babies continue to be abandoned.

“I’m coming at [the issue] from a human rights standpoint, that a family has a right to stay together,” said Julayne Lee, an adoptee from Minnesota–the Land of 10,000 Korean American adoptees, as she put it. Lee was a member of G.O.A.’L (Global Overseas Adoptees’ Link), and she served on the ASK (Adoptee Solidarity Korea) steering committee until 2008 in South Korea, working with other adoptees to approach inter-country adoption from a more political, critical perspective.

Along with advocating for more comprehensive social welfare programs to increase domestic adoption and help single mothers, Lee also worked on a campaign that allowed a number of Korean adoptees to reclaim Korean citizenship on the condition that the receiving country recognized dual citizenship.

“I think it has given some people a piece of their identity they wanted for a long time,” Lee said.

Jenna Ness spent years trying to come to peace with her own identity as a queer Korean American adoptee.

“With the LGBTQ community, their ‘coming out’ is a huge issue,” said Jenna Ness, who identifies as a queer adoptee. “It’s been part of my journey–coming out as queer, but also coming out as an adoptee.”

Ness has organized gatherings for queer adoptees with Also-Known-As (AKA), an adoptee-led community organization in New York City, and she spoke on a Queer Asian Adoptee Panel at the New York City Asian American Student Conference (NYCAASC). She and her two triplet sisters successfully found and reunited with their Korean family in 2010, but she said she hasn’t come out to them because she doesn’t know how they would respond.

“I think as Korean adoptees, we all obviously have diverse stories, but I think many of us can relate to is feeling different and feeling unaccepted,” Ness said. “I’d like to see the Korean adoptee community … push the boundaries in terms of, who isn’t accepted, who’s marginalized in society and how we can be better about accepting people who are different and how we can challenge social norms and challenge oppression.”

About 40 people, many of them high school- and college-aged, attended the forum, held at the offices of Asian Americans Advancing Justice-Los Angeles. KAYLT is a program of the nonprofit K.W. Lee Center for Leadership, which was founded to help nurture “community consciousness”—a quality of the organization’s namesake, journalist K.W. Lee—among young people.

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Adoptees Shed Their Clothes In A Powerful Issue Of ‘Gazillion Voices’

by JAMES S. KIM

When online magazine Gazillion Voices launched last year, the cover story for their inaugural issue portrayed adoptees ripping tape off their mouths. It was a message to the world that now is the time for adoptees, along with their friends and allies, to share their thoughts and perspectives on their own terms.

Since then, Gazillion Voices published 12 issues, with the latest marking a one year anniversary for the magazine. To celebrate, it poses another important question in the cover story: Do adoptees feel comfortable in their skin?

Aptly titled “The Skin Issue,” the series of images by photographer Denis Jeong and the accompanying testimonies show adoptees shedding their clothes and revealing narratives that are but the beginning to complex, layered and emotional conversations in the adoptee community.

The hope is that with this story, the shared commonalities will resonate with members of the immigrant, LGBTQ and People of Color (POC) communities.

“I feel great about the first 12 months of Gazillion Voices,” said founder and co-editor Kevin Haebeom Vollmers, who started the Land of Gazillion Adoptees blog in 2011. “I know we have a lot of work ahead of us, but it is truly an honor to work with a team that is so dedicated, talented and forward-thinking. Gazillion Voices has made its mark, in adoption and beyond and I am looking forward to pushing the envelope in the next year.”

If you are in the Minneapolis area, the images will be on display at Boneshaker Books in the Seward neighborhood next month. The opening reception for the two-week exhibit will take place Aug. 14 at 7 p.m.

Here are a few excerpts from “The Skin Issue.” You can check out the full story on the Gazillion Voices website.

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Name: Ashley Wilson
Age: 28
Gender: Female
Identify as: American

Have you always felt comfortable in your skin? The short answer is, “No, I haven’t.” Not until the last few years have I really started to feel comfortable.

Now for the longer answer. What it really comes down to for me is understanding my place in this world as “me” and not as what society believes “me” to be. This has been a difficult thing to do, and I imagine it would be for anyone of any demographic. Society has a twisted way of making people feel bad about themselves.

Being a woman is one thing to handle in this society, but add to that being of Asian descent. On top of being both a woman and Asian, now add the fact of being adopted. Then consider being adopted into an American family, which happens to be Caucasian. But, it doesn’t end there. Now place that Caucasian American family in a small, rural town, where few, if any, people look like you. With all of that to work on, a person is expected to feel comfortable?

It’s not easy. There are a lot of ignorant people in society. It can be difficult and sometimes emotionally painful to have to deal with the careless words people can use in everyday, casual conversation. There’s an old saying that only you can control how you feel about what is said or done in your presence. While this may be true, there should still be accountability by the other party as to what develops in their brain to come out of their mouth. It seems very one-sided that I should have to deal with rude and hurtful words spoken by others. Perhaps they should take a few moments before speaking to think about what they’re about to say. That’s the core of the accountability issue.

Fun fact: I have five parents. I can hold a conversation in Swedish.

Favorite hobby: My newest obsession would have to be Ultimate Frisbee. It’s so much fun and a great workout!

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Name: Luke Bengston
Age: 28
Gender: Male
Identify as: Korean

Have you always felt comfortable in your skin? I haven’t ever really felt comfortable in my own skin. I feel most at home and most comfortable with myself amongst other Koreans and in my natural habitat—Korea. I always felt like an alien here in Minnesota my whole life, though making friends in the KAD community has helped me become more at peace with myself and who I am.

Favorite hobby: Exercise and skateboarding

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Name: Niki Burns. My given Korean name: Kim, Sung Mee
Gender: I’m a woman
Age: 34
Gender: I’m a woman
Identify as: Asian American/Korean American/Korean with a side of Sassy

Have you always felt comfortable in your skin? No, especially growing up in a predominately white community. I grew up in the suburbs of St. Paul where my sister and I made up the majority of minority people in our schools. Didn’t really start to feel comfortable until after high school.

Fun fact: I’m a twin.
Favorite hobby: Hiking, camping, biking, walking, live music, bonfires, sports, etc.

Images by Denis Jeong/Gazillion Voices

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Andy Marra Shares Her Story

A Single Spark

A Korean American adoptee, transgender woman and LGBT activist, Andy Marra has found that sharing her story carries the power to move and inspire.

by EUGENE YI
photographs by VICTOR CHU

The Arcus Foundation in New York has two goals that don’t seem to have a lot to do with each other: social justice for gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people; and the protection of the great apes. The two goals reflect the passions of the founder, John Stryker, an architect and one of the heirs to his grandfather’s medical technology fortune. It makes a certain sort of sense, I guess.  Stryker is gay, and he owned a pet monkey when he was growing up that he eventually gave to the local zoo.

A recent Arcus hiree could perhaps be forgiven for lacking a fluency in both missions. But as its new communications director, Andy Marra has to possess just that.
“I’ve got a lot of reading, a pile of books on my desk,” she said, sighing theatrically. She was prepping for a trip down to Florida to visit an ape sanctuary when I met her at the Arcus Foundation’s offices in midtown Manhattan, on a blustery day when winter almost seemed resentful that spring was nigh. Like any New Yorker, she had dressed hopefully, in a black-and-white striped miniskirt and a thin blousy top. We’d planned on walking, but decided to stay inside.

So Marra will have some reading for the plane. As for the other mission, her qualifications could hardly be more suited for Arcus, the largest donor to LGBT causes in the country. The 28- year-old transgender woman’s resume includes public relations work for the LGBT advocacy group GLAAD, as well as with GLSEN, the Gay, Lesbian & Straight Education Network. The Advocate magazine chose her as one of its “Forty Under 40” LGBT movers and shakers, the White House and the City of New York have both honored her for her work, and a slew of organizations have given her a mantle’s worth of awards, including one recently from the National Queer Asian Pacific Islander Alliance.

She’s also a Korean American adoptee, and has worked as the co-director of Nodutdol, a fiercely progressive Korean American activist organization focusing on reunification and demilitarization in the peninsula.

She’s a regular contributor to the Huffington Post, among other outlets, and is an outspoken advocate for LGBT and Korean unification issues. Her new job allows her to utilize her skillset, albeit from a slightly different vantage point.

“At Arcus, a lot of our grantees are organizations I’ve worked with or had connections with over the years,” said Marra. “I’m able now to help elevate their stories and connect it to our support, making a really big difference on the ground that probably everyday people on the street aren’t aware of. Their stories matter.”

She recently became prominent for her own story, though, writing on HuffPo about coming out as a transgender woman to her South Korean birth mother. The story ended up going viral.

“I kept telling her [my biological mother], ‘You have fans! Everyone loves you! I had to ask, ‘Do you have anything you want to say to your fans?’ And she said in her broken English, ‘Thank you. I love you. Goodbye.’ I said, ‘OK, mom.’”

Marra’s tone was teasing, adolescent, playfully insolent, and it struck me that over the course of a few minutes of talking to her, she had channeled a preacher’s cadence, a PR professional’s informational authority, an insolent teenager, and, well, herself, a transgender Korean American adoptee woman with an easy laugh and a sharp wit. Her warmth exemplified the inclusiveness her very existence demanded. In other words, if I ran an organization, I’d probably want her to be speaking for it.

Marra’s story starts in South Korea, at an adoption agency. She was part of the wave of South Korean babies adopted by families abroad, which started after the Korean War and peaked in the ’80s. An American family adopted Marra, and they brought her to upstate New York.

“I grew up in a Caucasian family. My parents were white. Are white. They’re still white,” she said, laughing, then adding, “I stuck out like a middle finger.” Her adoptive mother, a dietician, proved to be an early influence. Marra’s family volunteered actively in their community, and despite being Lutherans, the emphasis on the importance of service displaced any doctrinal issues regarding the LGBT community that may have been present.

“Because of [my mother’s] work, because of her experience, and because of her good heart, she ended up volunteering with LGBT support groups, lobbying for health care groups to support transition,” Marra said. “I think that’s where the spark started. That was the first spark.”

Growing up, Marra always knew she liked boys, and never saw anything wrong with it. “There was never an ‘aha’ moment or awareness,” she said. “It was how I always felt growing up as a child. I never felt anything wrong with being attracted to boys.”

She first came out to her parents, as gay, in the sixth grade. The experience was not an easy one.

“I don’t think any family or any parent expects their child to be gay. I think that is a safe assumption for many parents and families. When I came out, it wasn’t easy … But—,” she paused. “I was who I was. And my parents were OK with that.”

Being a gay male is, of course, different from being a trans woman; gender identity and sexual orientation are not the same. “As an American child, I didn’t have the word trans or transgender in my vocabulary,” she said. “I didn’t know there was an identity that existed that defined who I was.” So Marra continued to identify as gay, and even came out a second time during high school, an affirmation of sorts.

“At the time, I think my parents were struggling with the question of: Is this a phase? Is this not a phase?” she said. “I wanted to let them know that my attraction to guys was not going to change.”

Inspired by the example of her adoptive mother, Marra started looking for ways to serve the community she identified with, and joined the GLSEN chapter in upstate New York. The experience expanded her exposure to the range of sexual orientations and gender identities, and helped show her where she fit.

“I remember in summer of 2003, I took a job with them, went into the offices, and I came out as trans,” she said. Marra recalled thinking, “I know who I am. This is who I am. And I don’t know where to begin in figuring out the next steps.”

One of the first steps she did take was to tell her parents. But for this third coming-out, instead of announcing it, as she had the first two times, she decided to write a letter.

“I think writing is very therapeutic, a very individual act. It’s also liberating,” she said. “In a conversation, sometimes it can get heated. There can be misunderstandings. Sometimes the point you’re trying to make is shadowed by something you didn’t want it to be shadowed by. Writing allowed me to freely accept my feelings. I didn’t want to have an argument with my family. And I wanted to allow them time to respond.”

There is an old saw within the LGBT community that one never stops coming out, but Marra’s journey still stands out. She recently spoke about her relationship with her adoptive parents, recounting the Christmas mass she’d just attended back in upstate New York. It was the first time she’d gone to church with them since she’d come out as trans. “They wanted me to be comfortable. So here I was, flanked by my parents, and the response from friends and colleagues and my godparents was very positive. And it was really therapeutic to be able to go into a space where people knew me as male, and to be my authentic self, to not be embarrassed about who I am.”

After high school, Marra got out of upstate and headed to New York City, where she immediately felt at home. “There is obviously a huge representation of people of color in the city,” she said. “Also a vibrant Korean American community, and it felt like I was with my people, and I could just be myself.” The diversity within the LGBT community made itself apparent as well. Marra, as a trans activist, found herself in the midst of a long-simmering source of tension within the community.

“There is that feeling of ‘we have been thrown under the bus.’ The needs we have are being undersupported or underrecognized,” she said. Laws at both the state and federal level prohibit discrimination against people on the basis of sexual orientation. There is no such protection for transgender people, at the federal level or in many states, including New York. Even the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders continued to list Gender Identity Disorder as a condition, long after homosexuality had been removed (GID has since been replaced with the less immediately damning but still hacky feeling “Gender Dysphoria,” which refers not to the state of feeling like one is the opposite of one’s biological gender, but the negative feelings that arise from that state).

“Employment nondiscrimination is a huge issue … If you can’t get a job, how are you going to support yourself? And it raises the question: What about access to credit, or housing?” While transgender rights movement has not progressed as quickly as the fight for gay and lesbian rights, the shared history of the groups make them allies in the end.

“The community is very diverse, and with that diversity comes a rich complexity of ideas and identities and experiences.” the activist said. “There will always be tension in any kind of diverse community. I think what matters though is that, when sh-t hits the fan, so to speak, everyone comes together and everyone supports one another.” And the tectonic progress made by the gay rights movement gives Marra a sense of how quickly things can change.

“The landscape in the country is that the majority of Americans support marriage equality. I think it’s from a lot of work of sharing stories and being visible,” she said. And the kind of storytelling that Marra engages in fits into that activist tradition.

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The idea for sharing her story came from a friend, who had seen Marra put “silly pictures of her birth mother online,” Marra said. “She’s very active in her church, and she was traditional Korean fan dancing to worship music.” Marra had met her birth mother while taking part in KEEP, the Korea Education and Exposure Program, a trip to South Korea organized by Nodutdol that connects activist-minded Korean Americans with their comrades in the peninsula.

Marra remembers writing her account of the trip while Hurricane Sandy roared outside her window. When she was done, she showed it to her adoptive mother, who called it a “home run,” Marra said. And after receiving permission from her biological mother to run it, the piece took on a life of its own.

“I’ve had crazy offers. People want to make movies, people want to make theatrical performances. I even ended up in a church sermon,” she said. But more important than the media’s response, or the likes and retweets, were the actual emails and letters she received.

“I heard from other adoptees who were LGBT who were grappling with similar questions. I heard from parents of adoptees whose children had come out as trans. I heard from Koreans and Korean Americans who were apparently so inspired by reading my piece that they ended up coming out to their families.

“You just can’t help but realize how powerful the word is. So I was very blessed and very fortunate,” she added. She’s now planning on writing a sequel about what’s happened since the piece went up, a few more details about what she’s learned regarding the circumstances surrounding her being given up for adoption, and her new fiancé, a chef in New York who is also a Korean American adoptee.

“Yeah, I’m in love,” she said, rolling her eyes a little bit at herself for being such a cliché, then smiling happily. They’ve been dating for about a year, and Marra now plans to take him to South Korea for his first trip back as an adult, and to introduce him to her biological mother. Once there, Marra plans on helping guide him through the country, just as others had done for her a few years ago, as she searched for her biological parents. She’s looking forward to the trip, but there is one thing she won’t be looking forward to.

“Not skirt friendly,” she said. “Those low tables, let me tell you, man. Give me a blanket.”

This article was published in the May 2014 issue of KoreAm. Subscribe today! To purchase a single issue copy of the May issue, click the “Buy Now” button below. (U.S. customers only. Expect delivery in 5-7 business days).





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Art Program to Help Adoptees Tell Their Stories

Image via Land of a Gazillion Adoptees.

Tens of thousands of adoptees call Minnesota home, and for those in their teens and college years, coming to understand their identity and being able to express themselves is an integral aspect of their lives. Unfortunately, resources designed specifically for individuals who identify as adoptees are not readily available, even for the Twin Cities state.

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To provide that artistic medium, COMPAS, a St. Paul-based arts organization, Land of a Gazillion Adoptees (LGA), and spoken-word artist Kyle Tran Myhre, aka Guante, have teamed up to develop Creating Home, a program that looks to connect young adoptees with world-class artists through interactive workshops and even performance opportunities. The program’s Kickstarter, which has 24 days left to go, will go towards funding a three-month pilot project where teen and college age adoptee participants will have access to the tools and resources to tell their stories and express themselves through whatever artistic medium they choose.

Creating Home will kick off with a string of performances by young artists and locally and nationally recognized artists, including a few of the mentors. Kyle Tran Myhre, a two-time National Poetry Slam champion, will then lead the series of workshops, which will have faculty and guest artists who will work directly with the participants in structured lessons, as well as provide open space for them to create on their own.

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Participants will also have various opportunities to showcase their work. Gazillion Voices, LGA’s online magazine, will feature photography and video projects, while other work may find outlets in art galleries and theaters.

At the end of the program, participants will show their finished work in a final exhibition in front of their family, friends and community. Their work will then be published in an online and print book, with proceeds from sales going back into Creating Home, with the hope that the program can eventually become a statewide and national program.

Wednesday's Link Attack: Kim Jong Il, Hyuna, Seung Hoon Choi

From Miraculous Birth to ‘Axis of Evil’: Dictator Kim Jong Il’s Timeline
Bloomberg

North Korea ends 12 days of official mourning today for Kim Jong Il, the dictator eulogized by his nation’s state media as “Dear Leader.”

Kim died of a heart attack on Dec. 17, brought on by exhaustion as he traveled the country by train offering guidance to his people, according to the official account of his passing.

Below is a timeline of notable events during the life of Kim, showing the contrast between the persona crafted by his state media and the accounts of outsiders and the international press.

Where in the World Is Kim Jong Nam?
Time.com

Reports say Kim Jong Il’s eldest son is now under “Chinese protection” after leaving the island of Macau. But like most things in the Hermit Kingdom, it’s hard to know for sure.

Just how isolated is North Korea? 6 facts to consider
Christian Science Monitor

North Korea’s outlook has earned it the title of the ‘hermit kingdom.’ The country is both cut off from the wider world and intensely focused on its neighbors.

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In South Korea, some praise North’s departed “Dear Leader”
Reuters

Despite growth that has propelled South Korea to become the world’s 13th largest economy, a powerhouse that makes computers, mobile telephones and cars, there are some in the capital of Seoul who believe life is better in the impoverished North.

As the world watched Wednesday’s funeral of dictator Kim Jong-il, who presided over famine, a nuclear arms push and military skirmishes with the South, Choi Dong Jin, 48, told Reuters that Kim was “a great and outstanding person” for resisting U.S. imperialism.

Korean American pastor seeks reunification through humanitarian aid
CNN.com

When Chang Soon Lee reflects on his childhood years in North Korea, his joy quickly turns to deep sadness. Like millions of Koreans caught in the middle of the Korean War in the early 1950s, Chang at the age of 15 was forced to flee his native homeland.

His father, a prominent minister who survived World War II, disappeared just days after communist-led forces invaded Pyongyang. “After the (World War II) liberation of Korea, my father often visited churches and preached but one day we waited for him and he never returned home,” says Chang.

By the time an armistice halted the Korean War in 1953, nearly 37,000 U.S. troops had been killed and more than 400,000 North Koreans soldiers were dead, according to the U.S Department of Defense.

Chang eventually emigrated to the United States on a student visa and became a minister, co-founding a ministry for Korean immigrants at Wiltshire United Method Church in Los Angeles, home to the nation’s largest Korean-American population.

But Chang has never forgotten his homeland and he’s returned half a dozen times on humanitarian missions, taking tons of food to orphanages as part of a charity group he established in the United States. “Its a kind of symbolic showing for them that we love you, you are our brothers and sisters, we are tragically separated but we are one and we are concerned about you we are praying,” says Chang.

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N.Korean Spy Kills Himself
Chosun Ilbo

A man who claimed to be a North Korean defector has committed suicide after confessing that he was sent to spy on the South.

During questioning the man, who was in his 30s, said he had received orders from Pyongyang to report on a South Korean organization that helps defectors from the North.

The National Intelligence Service said the man had hanged himself in a shower room. The source said North Korean spies held the man’s family hostage and that he felt pressured after his confession.

Adoption of Korean boys leads to full house
Journal Review (Crawfordsville, Ind.)

Paul and Stacey Leonard of Ladoga adopted sons Charlie, 1, and Reuben, 5, from South Korea. The Leonards also have a biological son, Peter, 8.

Injury costs Huskers one-time starting lineman for bowl
NBC Sports

Due to an injury to the regular starter, Nebraska Cornhuskers offensive lineman Seung Hoon Choi will be in the starting lineup when Nebraska takes on South Carolina in the Capital One Bowl on Jan. 2.

S. Korean short-track legend gains Russian citizenship to fulfill Sochi dream
Russia Today

Russia’s medal hopes at their first-ever Winter Games in Sochi have been given yet another boost as South Korean short-track legend Ahn Hyun-soo has finally been granted Russian citizenship.

The 26-year-old captured three golds and one bronze at the Turin Olympics back in 2006, becoming the most successful athlete there. He is also a five-time Overall World Champion.

HyunA & 2NE1 make it to Spin.com’s ‘Favorite Pop Tracks of 2011′ list
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On December 27, the website for music magazine Spin revealed their favorite pop singles of 2011.

Among the various songs by A-list pop icons, two K-pop songs made it to the list. At #3, HyunA‘s “Bubble Pop” beat #4 pop princess Britney Spears‘ “Till the World Ends“, and 2NE1‘s “I Am the Best” took the #8 spot.

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Monday's Link Attack: Mary Hayashi, David Oh, Hee Young Park

Hayashi’s political career, legacy in jeopardy with charges looming
San Jose Mercury News

State Assemblywoman Mary Hayashi entered the political world as a survivor of a tormented childhood, losing an older sister at 17 to suicide and watching as her disgraced parents burned her sister’s clothes, cut her out of photos and never mentioned her name again.

Yet Hayashi quickly built a name for herself at the Capitol after becoming the first Korean-American woman to serve in the Legislature. She became part of the inner circles of two Assembly speakers. A magazine named her one of the 100 most influential Asian-Americans of the past decade.

Now, a new and puzzling source of shame is threatening to ground this once-rising East Bay Democrat and dash her plans to run for the state Senate: a bizarre grand theft charge that accuses her of shoplifting nearly $2,500 of clothes at San Francisco’s Neiman Marcus on Oct. 25.

While the case has embarrassed fellow lawmakers and could make Hayashi the first California lawmaker in 18 years to be ousted because of a felony conviction, it has focused new attention on what legislative staffers call Hayashi’s overly ambitious and sometimes erratic behavior.

Her criminal case has caused tongues to wag at the Capitol and jolted the tight-knit Korean-American community, where many view her as a role model.

“I’m saddened because she’s somebody that many in the Korean-American community have looked up to,” said Jiyon Yun, a Walnut Creek attorney. “She’s had so many accomplishments and contributed so much to so many efforts and projects, I hope this doesn’t take away from what she’s been working on.”

David Oh takes the cake in at-large Council race
Philadelphia Daily News

There will be no repeat of the nightmare four years ago, when attorney David Oh was ahead on election night for one of two City Council at-large seats set aside for the minority political party but lost after absentee ballots were tallied.

Oh today finally bested Al Taubenberger in last week’s election, after absentee, military and provisional ballots were counted. In the final tally, Oh led by 166 votes from election day ballots and absentee ballots. A count today of 755 provisional ballots, used on election day when there are questions about a voter’s registration, did not put Taubenberger ahead.

Oh said he was not surprised by the narrow margin, though he said it was unclear what impact a barrage of negative mailings, radio ads and robo-calls in the closing week of the campaign had on his campaign. That effort was run by a political action committee controlled by Local 98 of the International Brotherhood of Electrical Workers, which supported another Republican in the race.

Hee Young Park wins LPGA finale
USA Today

Holding off some of the biggest names in women’s golf, unheralded Hee Young Park won the CME Group Titleholders on Sunday for her first career LPGA title.

Park, with a closing 70, finished at 9-under-par 279 to beat Paula Creamer and Sandra Gal by two shots at sun-splashed Grand Cypress Resort to win the LPGA tour’s season-ending event. Another shot back were Na Yeon Choi and world No. 2 Suzann Pettersen. Michelle Wie, world No. 3 Cristie Kerr and world No. 1 Yani Tseng, trying to win for the 12th time this season, made brief runs at the championship before finishing in a tie for sixth, seven shots behind.

Korean Tacos Bounce From LA to Seoul
Wall Street Journal

In an alley just off Garosoo-gil, the tree-lined street in Gangnam that has taken over from Apgujeong as the coolest place to be seen on weekends, is the three-month-old Grill5taco restaurant that has created its own version of Kogi’s fusion of Korean and Mexican foods.

Grill5taco was started by Ban Joo-hyung and Kim Hyun-chul and their original thought was to sell their tacos from trucks just like Kogi does. So they brought one over from the U.S. and hit the streets for a short time last year.

But the police kept slapping them with fines. Apparently, it’s OK to sell food from tents and from trucks that have permission to work in certain spots. But it’s against the law to just drive around wherever you want and sell food.

Mr. Kim said that’s when they decided to open the restaurant. “Garosoo-gil was the only neighborhood we considered,” he said.

Korea Still Sends Hundreds of Babies Abroad for Adoption
Chosun Ilbo

Korea is still the largest exporter of babies for adoption to the U.S., highlighting the need to strengthen child protection in the country. According to the 2011 Annual Adoption Report to Congress released Friday, out of the total of 2,047 foreign-born children adopted by U.S. families from October 2010 to September 2011, 734 or 36 percent were from Korea.

The Philippines was a distant second with 216, Uganda third with 196, India fourth with 168, and Ethiopia fifth with 126. Korea last topped the list in 2003 and since then it ranked fourth or fifth until it reclaimed first place this year.

Suspected N.Korean Spy Arrested After Posing as Defector
Chosun Ilbo

An alleged North Korean spy has been arrested after arriving in the country posing as a refugee.

The government said Saturday that a routine background check on the individual revealed he had been assigned by the North to conduct espionage activities in the South.

Authorities said the man entered Korea in April after traveling through China and Southeast Asian countries including Laos, Vietnam and Thailand in a bid to legitimately build his cover story as a defector.

A New Voice Grips South Korea With Plain Talk About Inequality and Justice
New York Times

Two days before Seoul elected a mayor last month, an unassuming man slipped into the campaign headquarters of Park Won-soon, an independent candidate. Amid flashing cameras, the man, Ahn Cheol-soo, a soft-spoken university dean who had earlier been seen as a contender for mayor himself, affirmed his support for Mr. Park, entrusted him with a written statement and then left.

“When we participate in an election, we citizens can become our own masters, principle can defeat irregularity and privilege, and common sense can drive out absurdity,” said Mr. Ahn’s statement, an open appeal to voters that quickly spread by way of Twitter and other social networks. “I’m going to the voting station early in the morning. Please join me.”

It was a pivotal moment in an election whose outcome has rocked South Korea. In a country where resentment of social and economic inequality is on the rise, and where many believe that their government serves the privileged rather than the common good, Mr. Ahn’s words — “participate,” “principle,” “common sense” — propelled younger voters to throw their support overwhelmingly behind Mr. Park, the first independent candidate to win South Korea’s second-most-influential elected office.

Korean-American businesses donate 600 turkeys
WNEM.com (Flint, Mich.)

Detroit police Chief Ralph Godbee says Korean-American businesses are donating 600 turkeys for distribution to the city’s needy.

Godbee says the 27th Korean-American Share Day is being marked with an event at 1 p.m. Tuesday at the department’s 12th Precinct station.

A Korean teacher cycling across the country stops in East Texas
KTRE ABC (Lufkin, Tex.)

It was a request like no other for the First Assembly of God. A 21-year old teacher from Korea cycled up to the church last Thursday, asking to spend the night in the front yard.

“He asked if he could put his tent up and stay the night to get some rest because he felt more safe staying at churches than he did just anywhere,” said First Assembly of God member, Lesa Rodgers.

“They told him yes he can camp here. So then, I come up. It was cold. So I said look just come on in the church. We weren’t going to leave him there,” said First Assembly of God pastor, Kenneth Reynolds.

Tungin Byun saved up money over the past year. Now, he’s using it to cycle around the US, stopping at churches for rest along the way.

North Korean celebrities are struggling because of the Hallyu Wave
allkpop

North Korean celebrities are suffering significantly due to the Hallyu Wave, mainly because South Korean celebrities are gaining much popularity, while North Korean celebrities are becoming forgotten. Multiple insiders state, “People related to the North Korean entertainment business ignore the demands of the people and solely focus on Kim Jong Il‘s propaganda. People can expect to see the end of North Korea’s entertainment industry“.

North Korean youths who defected from the country were able to name several South Korean films including ‘Stairway to Heaven‘ and ‘Scent of a Man‘, while they were unable to recall any names of actors/actresses from a particular North Korean film.

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N. Korea crowned world champs – unofficially
AFP via Google News

North Korea’s 1-0 win over Japan last week was not only a famous victory over their bitter rivals — it also made them the Unofficial Football World Champions, according to a tongue-in-cheek website.

The www.ufwc.co.uk site contends that the world title won by Spain in 2010 passed unofficially to Argentina after a friendly win, and then to Japan after the Blue Samurai beat Lionel Messi’s men in October last year.

So when Pak Nam Chol buried his 50th-minute header at Pyongyang’s bitterly cold Kim Il Sung Stadium last Tuesday, prompting rapturous celebrations, it was a goal that also put the secretive state unofficially on top of the world.

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Blind Adoptee Has Amazing Vocal Ability

by Colin Takahashi

Just when Helen Choi thought life couldn’t get any more normal, things completely changed.

While watching SBS’s 20th Anniversary Special last November, Helen Choi turned away from doing the dishes after hearing Areum Lee sing, but what kept her watching was Areum’s talent even after realizing she was blind, according to The Star-Ledger. It was then that she made the decision to adopt Areum, so that she could help her utilize her talent to the fullest extent.

While in South Korea, Areum underwent training to become a massage therapist, a typical occupation for the blind in East Asia.But even with two more years of training to become licensed it was not guaranteed she would be able to obtain employment.

Choi believes that Areum will have a higher likelihood of working in America since South Koreans who are handicapped often face job discrimination.

Currently training with Nadine Herman of the Newark School of Arts, Areum is praised for her perfect pitch and her ability to sing in English, although she knows nothing of the language. Helen hopes that Areum can instill hope in handicapped people and show them that it is possible to succeed in life despite certain setbacks.

“It’s clear in my mind that she has total total perfect pitch because she, in her ear, can pick up anything, at anytime, no matter what it is,” Herman said.

Monday's Link Attack: Fast Food Too Fast, Korean Britney Spears, More

Danger on wheels: fast food delivery in South Korea
Christian Science Monitor

There has been a steady increase in the number of accidents involving motorcycle deliverymen, raising concerns that Korea’s obsession with being fast may need to be adjusted.

In 2009, there were 1,395, part of 4,962 injuries or deaths involving motorcycles in the restaurant and lodging industry during the past six years. And a recent poll of delivery drivers showed nearly 50 percent of those using motorcycles had indicated they had been involved in a road accident during the course of their work.

Derek Hough and the ‘Korean Britney Spears’ heat up film set with steamy kissing scenes
The Daily Mail (UK)

I guess BoA is the Korean Britney Spears. I thought this (below) was the Korean Britney Spears.

The former Dancing With The Stars professional was spotted in a steamy clinch with Korean popstar BoA Kwon as they shot scenes for Cobu 3D in Toronto, Canada.

Korean noodle maker in hot water over advertising
Reuters

Top South Korean noodle maker Nongshim ran into unexpected trouble from the nation’s fair trade officials, who Monday slapped the company with a steep fine for exaggerating the nutritional value of a new brand of instant noodles.

Students share time with defectors
Korea Herald

A group of high school students has been making regular visits to North Korean defectors who are patients at the National Medical Center, and offering their friendship.

Hurdles remain for Korean adoption
Korea Herald

Now that the government has reduced the quota for overseas adoptions to 1,013 to shed Korea’s image as one of the largest “orphan exporters,” the number of children that need to be adopted in-country is estimated to have taken off at a dramatic pace.

Insiders claim that the actual number of children abandoned and in need of families is actually much higher since some legal restraints keep a substantial number of children from being legally adopted.

Sending couples to the altar in style
JoongAng Daily

Jung Lee, a Korean-American wedding planner who runs her own firm, Fete, in New York, helped the Westin Chosun Hotel in Seoul overhaul its wedding planning services.

Traveler delights in South Korean journey, but glad to be home
The Times and Democrat (S.C.)

Here is a foreigner’s perspective on modern-day Korea.

[T&D Correspondent Larry Jordan] and his wife, Bonnie, recently returned from their nine-week visit there, where son Paul is stationed at United States Army Garrison Humphreys in Anjung-ri, south of Seoul.

Most people grow crops in every space available to use for themselves or to sell. Since most small farmers use hothouses to grow their vegetables, you can buy every kind of vegetable year-round. All sorts of products — vegetables, chickens, seafood and crafts — are sold at markets that abound in every city or village. Throughout the country, street markets are held on every date that ends with a three or an eight. They line the sidewalks, and it is a delight to stroll through and see the vast array of products for sale. The discerning shopper can find many bargains.

Homegrown Idols
Wall Street Journal

It’s like a pan-Asian version of the Backstreet Boys. Seasoned American music execs are spearheading efforts to make Blush the next big thing in America. The all-girl group features a member from South Korea, Japan, China by way of India, and the Philippines.

The story sounds like a teenage dream. But, in the mold of The Monkees or the Spice Girls, Blush is the product of a team of producers with a hard-nosed business plan. Five years in the making, the group’s sound and image has been carefully managed and tested against focus groups of teenage girls. Already, band members have adopted cute nicknames Queen V, Nacho, Jelly, Ali B and Tiger Lady.

“This all started with a simple thought: Why hasn’t a singer of Asian descent ever made it really big in the West?” says Jon Niermann, a youthful 45-year-old who founded Far West Entertainment, the Hong Kong-based media production company behind the band.

Public art rubs Seoul the wrong way
LA Times

Critics of an urban improvement effort in the South Korean capital that requires developers to provide public art say the law generated too many works that many find objectionable. It has been changed.